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The Latest Events with LSM

 

LSM Presents:
Gendering Power: How to Spice Up Your Role Play
with Sinclair Sexsmith
Sinclair Sexsmith

 

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Where: LGBT Center, 208 West 13th Street (bet 7th and 8th Ave.)
When: Friday, February 19, 2010 at 8:00-10:00PM
Cost: $5/LSM members, $10/Non members

An interactive workshop on how the addition of gender to power dynamics in sexual role play scenarios can increase desire, vulnerability, and intimacy, as well as explore deep inner personal gender identities.

About Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith enjoys whiskey, topping, the serial comma, political activism, and has been known to get on her knees in order to fix the strappy sandals of a queer femme.

Mr. Sexsmith’s online writing and photography projects such as Queer Eye Candy and Top Hot Butches explore queer sexuality, gender theory, butch/femme identity, and interpersonal relationships. She was named 2008’s #1 Top Sex Blogger for Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at sugarbutch.net, and received both the Best Lesbian Gender Bender Blog and the Best Lesbian Sex/Erotica Blog awards from The Lesbian Lifestyle in 2009. Her writing can be found in various anthologies, including the Best Lesbian Erotica series and in Visible: A Femmethology volume two.

Featured in the New York City Sex Blog Calendar benefiting Sex Work Awareness in 2009 and 2010 as a pin-up, Sinclair has also written for The Lesbian Lifestyle, Eden Fantasys, Carnal Nation’s Perv Panel, Mamba Girl, and Sappho’s Girls in the CyberDyke Network. She is starting a regular column on Radical Masculinity for Carnal Nation. She lives in New York City.


 

2010 Past Events

January

BDSM for Bigger Bodies with Del

2009 Past Events

December

LSM'S Holiday Social
November

LSM Safety & Orientation
The Artist’s Way to Designing Scenes with Nayland Blake
Leather Stimulus Package 2009
October

Making an Impact w/ Andrea Zanin, a.k.a Sex Geek
September

Bring Your Own topic
LSM Safety and Orientation meeting
August

LSM's 4th Annual Naked (or Not) Beach Party
July

Direction, Discipline and Service: The Heart of a Master/slave Relationship with slave Marsha
June LSM Member Safety & Orientation
Spanking Techniques from Sensual to Discipline w/ Lady Sabrina
LSM Sponsors Leather Pride Night
LSM Tables at Folsom Street East
Bound to be Proud Play Party - A Women & Trans Play Party
May LSM Member Safety & Orientation
Family Dynamics – Mommies, Daddies, Little Boys and Girls
April Bootblacking and Leather Care with Lisa and Kit
March LSM Celebrates Spring with a Women & Trans Play Party
Pre-Party Dinner at the Australian
Toy Bags unzipped with Goddess Roze
February LSM Field trip to Submit
Single Tails - The Epitome of SM with with Lolita Wolf
LSM Member Safety & Orientation
LSM Bylaw Revision Membership Meeting
January Take-Downs, Resistance Play and Kidnapping with Sebastien and Angel
LSM Women & Trans Uniform Themed BDSM Play Party

2008 Past Events

December LSM Holiday Social at the Stonewall Inn
November LSM Member Safety & Orientation
Damned if you Do...Damned if you Don't: Predicament Scenes with Sir C
LSM Field Trip to Catherine Opie: American Photographer
LSM Field Trip to SUBMIT!
October LSM Membership Business Meeting
Pressure Points to Cause Pain 101 with tomo
September LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
Breath Play with the Sexy Sadist
August LSM’s 3rd Annual Naked (or Not) Beach Party
July Deep Bottoming with Cheryl Stewart

June

LSM Member Safety & Orientation
Flogging with Special Guest LSM Co-Founder Jo Arnone
Leather Pride Night
LSM Tables at Folsom Street East

LSM’s Pumped Up With Pride: A Women & Trans Play Party
ke March

May

Rope Burns: Bondage with Yin
Greedy Pig Brunch: A Discussion Group for Bottoms — “Who’s Your Daddy?”

April

LSM Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
Flames of Desire: Tantric Fireplay with Barbara Carrellas

March

Bacchanalia: A Women & Trans Play Party
Ouch! MMM... Temporary Piercing Workshop with Ray Aims

February

LSM Member Safety & Orientation
Wax to the Max with Lolita
LSM Field Trip to CineKink NYC to see “Triple X Selects: The Best of Lezsploitation”

January

Mummification: A Hands-On Exploratorium Clinic
LSM Members-Only Business Meeting
LSM Field Trip to SUBMIT!

2007 Past Events

December

LSM's Holiday Party: Get Your Season's Beatings!

November

LSM's Women in Prison Play Party
LSM Field Trip to GMSMA's Single Tail Demo with Thrash
The Joys of Duct Tape with Glenda Rider
Orientation & Safety for New Members

October

Lee 'Bridgette' Harrington presents Beyond Roleplay
LSM’s Third Annual Flea Market

September

LSM Field Trip to Pink Japan with Midori at the Museum of Sex
Beyond Twisted: Permutations of Kinkiness with Midori
LSM Field Trip to SUBMIT!

August

Naked (or Not) Beach Party and 1st Annual Wrestling Match at Jacob Riis Beach

July

Orientation and Safety for New Members

June

Cuttings: Beyond the Back Alley Slasher Scene with Susan Brenner
Leather Pride Night
LSM’s Women and Trans Leather Pride BDSM Play Party
NYC 15th Annual Dyke March
Heritage of Pride Parade
LSM Field Trip to SUBMIT!

May

Flogging Basics with Felice Shays

April

Hit the Mats: Wrestling for Play with Jessi HolmanAhart

March

Lap Dancing 101 with Peggy Sue

February

Safety/Orientation for New Members
Coming Into Power: Dominants & submissives Speak
LSM’s Valentines Play Party
LSM Fieldtrip to “Valentine’s Day Smut — The Sequel” at Bluestockings

January

Lesbian Sex Mafis presents: Straps, Dildos + Blow-Jobs = Hole Fuckers + Cock Suckers with Felice Shays
LSM does SUBMIT!

2006 Past Events

December

Tyings of Comfort & Joy: Rope Bondage with Lolita Wolf
GMSMA’s Holiday Pot Luck Social
LSM fieldtrip to BODIES...The Exhibition

November

Lesbian Sex Mafia Presents: “Artistic Play Piercing: Body Decoration” with Ms. Cynthia (aka CM Hurt)
GMSMA’s Leatherfest
Lesbian Sex Mafia Celebrates Leatherfest with a Bar Night
LSM Orientation and Safety for New Members

October

Lesbian Sex Mafia’s Women and Trans Pirate Play Party!
Lesbian Sex Mafia Presents: “Brutal Affection: Punching, Kicking, Slapping, and Sex” with Felice Shays
Lesbian Sex Mafia Goes to the Movies: CineKink Film Festival

September

LSM Orientation and Safety for New Members
Lesbian Sex Mafia: Back to School Exploratorium

August

LSM Topless Beach Party

July

Lesbian Sex Mafia Presents: Toy Bags Unzipped — A Show and Tell Workshop on what Tops, Bottoms and Switches Pack in Their Bags

June

LSM Safety and Orientation Meeting for New Members
LSM’s Annual Leather Pride Play Party
Leather Pride Night
Folsom Street East
14th Annual New York City Dyke March

May

Work Hard, Play Harder: LSM Kick-Off Meeting

April

LSM Annual Tag Sale
Dinner at Venus Diner & Party at Paddles

2005 Past Events

November

November Night Out with LSM and Butch/Femme Group, dinner and play at Paddles

September

Tantric Sex with Barbara Carellas

June

Catherine Gross
Folsom Street East
Leather Pride Night and LSM post-LPN party at Arena

April

Building a Piercing Scene

February

The Bottom’s Guide to Getting IT but good! with Felice Shays

2004 Past Events

November

Hand and Foot Bondage with Midori

October

Bootblacking: Heel to Toe Lessons and Stories

September

Back to School: Caning 101 with Elizabeth (workshop and exploratorium)

July

The Legal Ties that Bind: Protecting Lesbian Leather Relationships with Rainbow Law

June

Breath Play featuring Glenda Rider
Folsom Street East
Leather Pride Night and LSM post-LPN party at Arena

May

Knife Play with Sir Cristo

April

Bottoming from the Top & Bottom Perspectives from Submissive Bottoms, Masochistic Bottoms, Service Tops and Switches

March

Heating up the Kitchen: Naughty Fun with Yummy Food with Elizabeth

February

King Tut’s Kink: Mummification with Lolita

2000 Past Events

October

Sensory Deprivation & Control

September

Waxing Like you Never Saw it Before: ”Depilatory Waxing for Fun and Torture“ with Butch Biker and Bumble Bee

July

Butt Play for Perverts with Tristan Taormino

May

Secrets from our BDSM Past with Viola Johnson

April

Bedtime Stories from the Marketplace with Laura Antoniou

March

Vagina Fisting with Susie Q & Connie

February

Ponygirls with Mistress Lalique and award-winning ponygirl Piper

January

Mummification with Lady Kayla

1999 Past Events

October

Decorative Cutting with Catheryne Thorne

September

“Female Genital Play: To Titillate & Torment” with Glenda Rider

June

Tell Us Your Story with Megan DeJarlais, International Ms. Leather 1998